I finally arrived in Beirut on January 13th, 2017. I’d been dying to explore ‘the Paris of the Middle East’ for years. Lebanon did not disappoint. I made incredible friends doing inspiring things with their lives, from journalism to wine bars. I discovered Lebanese cuisine, which I thought I knew about all my life but clearly didn’t (imagine Indian food in India versus Indian food in the food court). I left with new perspectives on war, conflict, and hope after talking to people deeply affected by Syria. And it was the 22nd country I’d been to in three years.
Leaving a successful career in Sydney three years ago and putting a great deal of effort creating a location-independent lifestyle, I now work on projects I love, sans office. I vagabond around the world while building skills, relationships, and work experience. The diversity of my projects – producing Instagram content for airlines, directing social media for reality TV shows, crafting communications strategies for tropical getaways – is matched only by the diversity of my workspaces– a cafe in Singapore, a wooden cabin in a remote Ecuadorian village, a balcony in New Delhi, a New York-bound Qatar Airways cabin.
So please don’t judge (not just yet) when I say: my status quo needs disruption. I want the next three years to be way more adventurous, bold, and creative than the last three. This doesn’t (necessarily) mean that I want to climb the world’s tallest construction sites or move into the Amazon rainforest, but I do want push my mind out into previously unimaginable places. To do so requires going right back to square one and becoming a beginner again.
Working in the advertising universe for three years, my status quo slowly crept in as a subtle complacency, and eventually the money become a safety net that took precedence over new creative ventures. If I kept my job, I’d use it as an excuse not to expand my horizons. And so Beirut evolved into a space to explore my innermost needs. Did I want to venture out, yet again, into uncharted territory? Did I want to start from scratch again and make a fool of myself? The questions scared me. And thrilled me. By the end of my visit, the answers were a resounding ‘yes, yes, and yes’. The brave young people I met, chasing their dreams in a region all too familiar with life-threatening conflict, certainly inspired me. And so February marks the first month away from advertising and the first month dedicated to writing.
Now, the reason why I say I’d like to disrupt my status quo is because everyone experiences a unique state of affairs that they’ve become just too comfortable with. A lot of people hate their desk jobs (or don’t quite love them). But not everyone’s status quo is the oversimplified corporate ‘9 to 5’ way of life. And the status quo isn’t just work related. It’s about personal growth in all areas of life. It might be your health. Your sense of adventure. Your relationships. It might even be your sex life. Most importantly, it’s about your state of mind.
What’s your status quo? Take a moment, a few moments, or a few months to define it. Seriously. It’s worth thinking about and then making a commitment to disrupt it. Pretty incredible things can happen with reflection and inspired action.
Once you shatter your status quo by doing things differently, you’ll eventually notice things getting a bit too comfortable again. For some people it’ll take years, for others much less. But once you get there, you’ll know its time for reflection and disruption once more. In fact, you’ll probably notice that personal evolution is complex, messy, non-linear, and ongoing. It never stops. And that’s beautiful. Embrace the beginner mind. As Zen teacher Shunryu Suzuki says, “In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities, but in the expert’s there are few.”
Here is a small selection of books, podcasts, documentaries and other resources that informed and guided me deeply over the past few years, helping me define and disrupt my status quo:
I had just one dream to accompany my suitcase as I left my hometown, Sydney, for London in August 2010. As a 21 year-old aspiring songwriter and producer fresh out of university, I intended to make London my new home and writing hits for Beyoncé and Beyoncé-tier artists my new career. Standing by for Beyoncé’s team to pick up one of my demo songs, I took up a part-time sales job at a West London Apple Store that October, covering my costs in the world’s most expensive city. Three years later after graduating from the Apple Store Leader Program in Sydney in late 2013, I left Apple to begin a new entrepreneurial adventure that would take me to Sri Lanka, Singapore, India, Philippines, Malaysia, and Europe.
Looking back and connecting the dots, I realise that the education I received at Apple was priceless compared to a business degree or to anything that Beyonce could have ever given me. My classroom – the shop floors of some of the busiest Apple Stores in the world – allowed me to learn important life skills and even more about my values, strengths, and opportunities. My brief career at Apple, along with the Apple-alumni friends and mentors I met from all over the world, enabled me to become a better person, ignited my passion for learning, and expanded my songwriting dreams into entrepreneurial dreams.
I’d like to share a few of the most important lessons I picked up during my chapter at Apple.
1. Be Yourself. Being Someone Else Sucks.
At Apple, I didn’t have to play a role. I could be myself! I learned that though there are different ways of presenting myself depending on the situation or audience, the core of who I am shines through every meaningful interaction I have with others. On the other hand, whenever I lack authenticity, conversations become littered with awkward moments, tension, and fizzle out into nothingness.
How did I become more of myself? I channeled my authenticity by:
Reflecting on my core values, past, and life dreams
Being fully present within myself and noticing when moods or behaviours change
Recognising strengths and weaknesses
Asking for feedback on an ultra-regular basis to build into self-development
As a side effect of being myself, I became more open-minded, compassionate, and able to put myself in others’ shoes. This became especially important in an environment as diverse as an Apple Store filled with people from many different walks of life.
2. Know Your Why, Then Start With Why.
Shortly after joining Apple, the now-famous TED Talk by Simon Sinek was the first recommendation a manager gave me after seeking his opinion about applying for the Apple Store Leader Program. Watching it changed my life, because for ten years I thought the only way I would find fulfilment in life is by writing Grammy-award winning music. I was starting with what when I should have been starting with why.
Intrigued by the idea that why is more important than what, I took the time to dissect my pop dreams. What was deeper than the outcome I was seeking? I reflected on my childhood, and a flood of memories washed over me. As a 10-year-old growing up in Saudi Arabia, I published a tabloid newspaper using my pet cats, dogs, and ducks as the stars of its gossip columns. For years my little sister was my muse and singer for entire albums I would write and produce on my computer. I would direct album cover photoshoots using our floppy disk digital camera, edit the liner notes on Microsoft Publisher ’98, and manufacture the album using our cool new HP Inkjet Printer and CD-RW burner. I also loved to paint, cook, write short stories, and build model airplanes. Suddenly it hit me – I didn’t want to be a songwriter or producer. I wanted to be a creator.
I could now articulate my passions clearly – I love creating something out of nothing. I love bringing ideas to life. I love inspiring a team of people to help make it happen. After this realisation, my job at Apple became so much more meaningful and fulfilling. I wasn’t just selling great products. I was the creative director of amazing customer experiences on the shop floor for eight hours a day. At home, cooking a delicious sake infused salmon dish for my friends became as fulfilling as writing a song! And today, the excitement of traveling to a new city where I can take Instagram photos that elicit emotion and inspire wanderlust is more exciting than the prospect of winning a Grammy.
Having discovered my why, I now enjoy and revel in each non-songwriting, non-Beyoncé project and experience, and I communicate my ideas with more passion, energy, and excitement than ever before.
3. Think Macro and Micro.
Observing my environment with macroscopic vision and microscopic detail was a crucial part of my training at Apple. On one of my shifts in Sydney, after getting my team energised for the eight hours ahead, reviewing our store goals for the day, and ensuring the look and feel of the store met our high visual standards, our most senior store leader walked into the building. She noticed only one thing – my outdated lanyard, which was due for replacement that morning because of a subtle design update. It didn’t matter that the rest of the entire store was ready for a great day ahead of us.
Tiny details like this that others might have seen as minor really mattered to us. A demo iPhone that hasn’t been reset to give that new-phone feel, customers waiting too long at a neglected part of the shop floor, an employee who has lost his motivation to create great customer interactions over several weeks – these are details that could easily be overlooked for the bigger picture. But at Apple, these details are what make up the big picture.
4. Become Comfortable with Uncomfortable
In order to thrive at Apple and beyond, I had to become very comfortable with being uncomfortable. The kind of discomfort that precedes virtually all life lessons and opportunities for growth can as subtle as butterflies in the stomach or as incapacitating as gut-wrenching nausea. I became familiar with a broad spectrum of uncomfortable situations – looking for specific constructive feedback from coworkers on a weekly basis, having difficult conversations with difficult customers, completing challenging projects and milestones every few weeks as part of the leadership program, and eventually choosing to leave Apple at the peak of my performance there. What I learned is that, if a goal or dream feels uncomfortable, it’s all the more important to pursue it.
Checking my ego at the door was crucial to finding comfort in discomfort. With my ego looming over me, each failure, rejection, or overwhelming frustration in the learning process would have chipped away at my spirit. An important part of growth is the willingness to look like a total idiot for the sake of learning and trying. With an ego, it becomes impossible to lean into the discomfort.
5. Find Courage
The last and most valuable lesson I learnt from Apple was a culmination of the previous four lessons. I received no no formal training in “courage”, but my learning came from the daily experiences, conversations, and mentors that pushed me to dream big, reflect on my self-development, and follow my gut on major life decisions.
The practice of making daily courageous decisions for three years eventually instilled in me enough courage to leave Apple. The company I was so in love with for its culture, values, and purpose, would be my last major employer (for now at least). With my newfound courage, I started my first company in Sri Lanka with no capital, business experience, or connections. My decision opened the door to new experiences, an abundance of new life lessons, and inspiring people to enrich my life. But had it not been for my journey at Apple, none of this would have been possible.
I could easily give dozens more lessons I learnt from Apple, but these five made the most profound impact on my professional and personal life.
Are you a former Apple employee? Share in the comments section below the biggest lessons you learned working at the company.
My Grandmother’s children scattered her ashes from a boat on Kalutara River in #SriLanka yesterday afternoon. The grand Kalutara Temple Stupa sits in the background.
My grandmother Seela De Silva had so many wonderful dimensions but to me she was a rebel, adventurer, feminist, and artist. She was one of the only female car drivers in her town when my dad and his siblings were young kids, was the first in our family and her entire village to fly abroad in 1960 on a Boeing 747 to Canada on a scholarship to study nursing, could freestyle beautiful Sinhala poetry, “kavi”, and never wore makeup because she was comfortable and confident in her own natural beauty. She raised 5 kids while building and running orphanages, hospitals, homes for crippled children and nursing schools all over Sri Lanka.
My personal favourite story of hers? She was kicked out of school as an early teen for making political speeches. Her dad was not upset, and she asked to move to an English-medium school instead. That changed the trajectory of the next two generations of our family, now scattered across 4 continents consisting of lawyers, doctors, entrepreneurs, artists and CEOs.
Her ultimate dream was world peace, and today I’ve got cousins who are Buddhist, Christian, and Muslim. She taught us to be humble, love unconditionally, to question the status quo, and develop our spiritual side.
While Sri Lanka’s capital city Colombo isn’t the best representative of the tropical paradise most people envision the tear-shaped island to be, a growing number of interesting attractions and the city’s convenient location provide a great hub for travellers and fellow digital nomads. In this post I’ll share my perspectives on Colombo for travellers, nomads, and entrepreneurs considering a trip there. You’ll find travel tips and resources at the bottom of the post including information on transport, accommodation, and mobile data 🙂
I relocated to Colombo in 2013 for two years, using the city as a hub while I did short stints in various cities including Delhi, Singapore, Tbilisi, and Manila. With the cheapest pre-paid 4G data in the world, I didn’t have to worry about poor or no wifi at the restaurants and cafes I used as my ‘offices’. Rs. 2000 would get me 28GB of pre-paid and high-speed data with my preferred local service provider Mobitel for 30 days. Safety, metered tuk-tuks (local taxis) whose drivers can’t rip one off, and the purchasing power of the dollar fuel Colombo’s appeal to location independent entrepreneurs and digital nomads.
Events like the arts festival ‘Cinnamon Colomboscope‘ and weekly happenings such as the vibrant ‘Good Market‘ are growing in frequency and scope, challenging the idea that there isn’t much to do in Colombo. And it’s geographically perfect for mini-adventures: weekend trips down south to Galle or Mirissa, three-hour train rides to Sri Lanka’s mountains and tea country, or East Coast escapades where pristine white sands, beautiful turquoise water, and arid land give you stark contrast to the lush, tropical green of the West Coast.
Sri Lankan food is best enjoyed at home, but Colombo’s offerings are diverse and delicious. Yamu.lk provides the best coverage of the city’s eateries from street-food to haute cuisine, but here are three places I’ve selected for specific reasons:
Whight & Co Cafe: My Office
Founded by a lovely Aussie couple, the Whights, Whight & Co’s triple threat make it my favourite place to work from:
a) Amazing cold-drip coffee. Each bottle lovingly brewed over 12 hours, the rich dark coffee uses home-roasted beans which the Whights grow on a plantation in the heart of Sri Lanka, where tea reigns supreme.
b) Consistently delicious eggs benedict. Contents: the best hollandaise sauce in town, a home-made hash brown, tomato relish and home-grown arugula to accompany two softly poached eggs on thick fluffy toast. Unmatched by any other venue on the island.
c) The view. Colombo’s shores lay about 25 metres away from your table no matter where one sits. I see new shades of ocean blue every time I visit.
Nuga Gama: Village Life in the City
This is one of my favourite places to take friends from abroad on their first or last evenings in town. Nuga Gama transports you from the hustle and bustle of central Colombo to a traditional, remote Sri Lankan village hugged by huge Banyan or ’Nuga’ trees. All the food at the traditional Sri Lankan buffet is cooked and served in clay pots. Tables are outdoors under the banyan trees which absorb the sounds of Galle Road and the city.
Urban Kitchen: Fresh “Anything and Everything” Food
I default to Urban Kitchen in Colombo 2 when I can’t decide what to eat and don’t want street-food, fast-food, or fancy-food. They’ve got a diverse menu that includes Sri Lankan ‘Chicken Kotthu’, pretty good and fresh salads by Sri Lankan standards, Middle Eastern, Italian, Thai, and even Japanese cuisine. And though they’re not masters of any one particular dish, unlike most South Asian restaurants that have a menu that covers the entire planet, their food is tasty, affordable, and fresh.
Other places I’ve enjoyed: Noodles – fantastic selection of South-East Asian noodle dishes in Cinnamon Grand ($$) Gallery Cafe – fine dining in renowned architect Geoffrey Bawa’s former office ($$$) Upali’s – often rated as the best Sri Lankan restaurant in town ($$) Barefoot Cafe – tropical-chic outdoor cafe in Colombo 3 ($$) Coco Veranda – small cafe on Ward Place, Colombo 7, with a fantastic Chicken Satay and decent coffee. I work from here often ($$) Ginger – chocolate and peanut butter parfait. Perfection. ($$)
There are many other places that have great food, value, and ambience, but the above list are the places that struck a chord with me.
24 to 48 hours provides the ideal time to create an adventure in Colombo. Here’s what I’d do with those hours:
Though it can get extremely hot and humid, walking is my preferred mode of transport here. My favourite places to walk through, particularly in the early evening, are Viharamahedevi Park in central Colombo, Slave Island, and down Galle Road near Colombo 3 (Colpetty) and 4 (Bambalapitiya).
Beach, burgers, and drinks at the private beach at Mt. Lavinia Hotel:
The beautiful Mt. Lavinia Hotel is about 40 minutes south of Colombo. Pay around Rs. 1000 to enjoy their private beach, a burger, and a drink. Don’t forget your SPF and swimming gear.
Find Local Goodies at the Good Market:
Discover local and organic food, home-made beauty products, and more at Colombo’s Good Market on Saturdays. They’ve got a permanent store opposite the Race Course as well if you can’t make it to the markets.
Enjoy Sunset at Galle Face Green:
The best sunset view in Colombo can be enjoyed for free in this massive public space. There’s street food, a promenade that can easily provide a 20-minute stroll, and kites – lots of kites! For a more colonial ambience to enjoy your sunset head next door to Sri Lanka’s first hotel, the Galle Face Hotel, where you can enjoy a Pineapple Juice or Lion Lager with a cinematic sunset.
Discover Geoffrey Bawa Architecture around Colombo:
Sri Lanka’s most famous architect and the father of ‘tropical modernism’ left his mark in many beautifully designed private and public buildings throughout Colombo. The Gallery Cafe which serves a fantastic jaggery crème brûlée, used to be his office. Don’t know who Bawa is? Check out this Slideshare which gives a great overview to Bawa’s work and principles.
These are just a few of my favourite things to do around Colombo, and they’re nearly all achievable within a 24 to 48 hour layover. If I had to sell this city in 10 seconds or less I’d say, “Colombo for digital nomads makes sense. There are affordable and good places to work, eat, and drink out of. It’s a hub that connects you to a tropical paradise. It’s got the cheapest 4G data in the world.” Sold.
I hope this post has inspired you to consider a trip to Sri Lanka with a stopover in Colombo, or to step outside of your home or hotel if you’re already in Colombo, and I’m eager to hear what you think of my suggestions. And if you’re a digital entrepreneur or nomad, I’d love to find out what you loved about Colombo – share in comments below 🙂
Most tourists can purchase a 30-day visa online for $35 here. Want to stay for more than 30 days? Here’s what the Sri Lankan Immigration Department instructs you do:
“A visitor wishing to stay more than 30 days in Sri Lanka, may apply for an extension. The Short Visit visa may be extended up to 90 days from the date of arrival at the first instance and further 90 days at the second instance.
Application for an extension should be submitted to the Visa Section of the Department of Immigration (head office) by visiting the Department or through an Authorized Agent.”
Metered tuk-tuk: always ask if the driver has a meter as this will provide you with a standard rate and double-check before the vehicle starts moving to avoid getting ripped off. Taxis:Kangaroo Cabs offer sedans and much cheaper budget cars. Bus: ultra-cheap public transport with drivers who truly believe they’re invincible. Check out the official Colombo bus schedules here (a hot mess, I know). Schedules have been beautifully presented by Colombo Design Studio here.
Trains: Want to get in or out of Colombo cheaply and conveniently. Sri Lankan trains offer a range of comfort levels and are surprisingly comfortable. Check out schedules here.
Where to Stay:
These are places either I or friends have stayed at. They’re comfortable, and allow you to work from the comfort of your room should you choose to stay in.
Disclosure: Please note that the hotel links below are affiliate links, and at no additional cost to you, I will earn a commission if you decide to make a booking. Please understand that I have experience with all of these hotels, and I recommend them because of their service, comfort, and convenience, not because of the small commissions I make if you decide to stay there.
$$$ Zylan on Rosmead Place, Colombo 7 – with a zen-like ambience and fantastic location, this boutique-hotel provides great value-for-money. I slept like a baby during my three night stay here the softest pillows and linen, and the Japanese restaurant on the rooftop serves some delicious food, included a fabulous sushi salad. See photos, read reviews, and book here.
The ancient city of Hampi in Karnataka, South India, is home to hundreds of ruins of palaces, temples, and UNESCO World Heritage Sites and belonged to the mighty Vijayanagara Empire (13th to 15th centuries). Geographically it is one of the most interesting places I’ve explored, with giant boulders scattered throughout the city that make it look like a giant had a temper tantrum and threw fistfuls of boulders all over the land. The empire that ruled almost all of South India was cosmopolitan, technologically advanced, and it’s key city, Hampi, was one of the richest cities in the world. When doing a bit of pre-travel research, this stood out on Wikipedia:
In around 1500 AD Hampi had about 500,000 inhabitants (supporting 0.1% of the global population during 1440-1540), making it the second largest city in the world after Peking-Beijing and almost thrice the size of Paris.
When a friend invited me to join her on a weekend trip last month when I was based in Pune, I had to find out what a mega-city like this looked like, and what it would have been like to be one of its citizens.
Getting there: the 11-hour sleeper bus from Pune to Hospet
Our VLR Sleeper Bus Hampi India during a quick break in the middle of nowhere.
My single upper bunk.
Inside our VLR Sleeper Bus. The left side had double beds, while the right had singles.
We paid about 1100 Indian rupees each way on a super comfy sleeper bus. Our bus left two hours late from Pune at around 12.30 a.m. I was blown away by how comfortable and clean the bunks were, and it wasn’t until I woke up around 4 a.m. bursting to pee and asked the driver to stop from a quick break that I saw how perilously he was driving. At one point as we overtook a couple of trunks on a one-lane road, we were driving head-on towards a massive truck about 250 metres away driving on the other side of the road. After that I slept very, very lightly.
The wrong side of the river turned out just right.
My friend being an absolute Lara Croft.
On the road on our scooter.
An abandoned Hindu temple we discovered exploring Hampi.
Where we failed miserably at keeping ourselves dry during a sudden 10-minute monsoon rain.
Such cheeky faces.
We got off at Hospet at 11 a.m. and took a INR 200 rickshaw to Hampi, and then got into a small boat that took us to the other side of the river where to our accommodation, with fewer tourists and fewer ruins. Since it was already 1pm we decided to hang out on this side of the river, renting a scooter to enjoy the beautiful scenery, near perfect weather, and stop at places that caught our eye. Highlights included:
– Hanuman Temple – supposedly the birthplace of the monkey God Hanuman. Crazy ass climb up but worth the views of all those boulders and Hampi.
– Bus and home-sized boulders – trying to find the royal stables of one of the enclosures, my friend and I got a bit lost on our scooter, and subsequently distracted by a bunch of massive boulders which we decided to climb up. This was so much fun, as we were off the beaten path, discovered an crumbling, abandoned Hindu temple complete with dead giant centipedes, and enjoyed amazing views with zero tourists anywhere in sight.
– Hampi Reservoir – We ended the afternoon trying to watch sunset at here but instead watched an old boat driver operate his bucket of a boat ferry passengers from one corner of the reservoir to another corner about 10 meters away, painfully slowly and inefficiently. At around 6.20pm we got pelted by intense raindrops during a sudden 10 minute monsoon shower.
My inner Indiana Jones/Lara Croft had a wonderful time.
Food: it all tastes the same?
What my friend and I discovered that night is that all the restaurants on our side of the river serve the same food from near-identical menus. The restaurant at our hotel, Gopi Guest House, had run out of the exact same items as our dinner venue, Laughing Buddha, as had the restaurant next door where we had our final lunch in Hampi before returning to Pune. In any case, the food we did order – typically Indian rice and curry dishes, pizzas, and pasta – were quite tasty and left our tummies in good shape 🙂
The other side of the river: ruins, temples, and bike tours
The next morning we took a boat to cross to the side of the river where most of the action takes place, and paid INR 400 each to rent a couple of bikes and join a few tourists on a bike tour of the major sites of Hampi. The whole trip too 4 hours and it was great to get insights on the history of the city and empire through the tour guide as well as through what we saw in front of us. My favourites included:
Royal Elephant stables, which when in operation centuries ago housed 11 royal elephants:
Hampi struck a chord with me. It reminded me that everything changes. Nothing, no matter, how great, how “timeless”, how invincible, lasts forever. This majestic kingdom with insanely luxurious palaces, dwellings, and temples (palaces had roofs made of sandalwood which took THREE MONTHS to burn and destroy when the Deccan empire took over the land in the 15th century) was reduced to dust and a stone over 600 years. I imagine Hampi being a Singapore, a Dubai, maybe even a New York of its time. A melting pot of culture, wisdom, and luxury. I wonder what the mega-cities of today will be like in 600 years. And where the mega-cities of tomorrow will be located, what they’re people will be like, and what their leadership will give its people.
If you’re thinking of visiting South India, make sure you stop by at Hampi! Accommodation is extremely affordable, transport readily available, and you’ll learn so much about South India and its history walking through the ruins. You’ll get to hang out with a bunch of friendly locals and fellow travellers, and create an adventure no matter which side of the river you explore!
Did this post about Hampi inspire you to visit? Have you already been? I’d love to hear your thoughts about your travels and adventures to Hampi in comments below!
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Transport to Hampi: We took the 11-hour sleeper bus to Hospet, which is 30 minutes away from Hampi. Tickets with the best bus service, ‘VRL’ buses, can be booked ONLY with an Indian credit card online using redbus.in or makemytrip.com. One of our Indian friends in Pune was kind enough to use his card to book our tickets.
Accomodation: Gopi Guest House. Very basic accomodation with simple toilet. Friendly staff and affordable room rates (INR 800) for a double room.
Food: Laughing Buddha. Cheap, tasty, and clean food.
Scooters: rent a bike with 2 liters of petrol for INR 280. This should last a whole day. You can only rent scooters on the non-touristy side of the river.
Bicycles: on the touristy side of the river, you should be able to rent bikes for INR100 or less if you’d a good negotiator.
“Travel far enough, you meet yourself.” – David Mitchell, Cloud Atlas
The first post I saw on my Facebook newsfeed this morning was the quote above, from one of my favourite books. Mitchell’s quote means so much to me – if I hadn’t moved from Sydney to Vienna when I was 20 and London at 21, I would never have experienced true solitude, starting a chapter of my life from scratch with zero dollars to my name, no friends or home, or even a job. The three years I spent in Europe helped define my values, learn how to make use of incredibly limited resources, and become increasingly comfortable with being me.
“We are only what we know, and I wished to be so much more than I was, sorely.” ― David Mitchell, Cloud Atlas
Travel broadens perspectives. It virtually guarantees an open mind (or open-er mind) as you meet people with opinions and viewpoints you never considered before, as you immerse yourself into food and culture you’d previously only vaguely heard about, and as you find out your way of living might be totally bland or fantastical depending on who you talk to.
Yes, all of the above could happen in my hometown, but, for me travel made me all the more receptive to new experiences, just a little bit more confident in talking to strangers in cafes, and value what and who was around me all the more because I knew I wasn’t going to be there for too much longer. Yes, you could save a fortune and become more open minded from the comfort of your own home with a few books and good friends, but, to me the jolt to the senses brought during those first days and nights on the other side of the planet was necessary and priceless.
Travel makes me treasure what I already have – the work I do, where I live, the food I eat, and most importantly the people around me. When I moved back to Sydney for the first time two years after London, I moved back to my old home, meeting old friends, passing the same buildings on the bus. However, I now experienced what I had for five years in a totally new way. I re-discovered Sydney and my friends. I carried myself differently. I’d become a better version myself. Travel brought me full circle, back to ‘me’.
If you could travel somewhere completely new and foreign, where would you go, and what would you do? Who would you allow yourself to be?
Think about that for a moment, and then go to kayak.com to make it happen 🙂
Comfort is the first symptom, followed by restlessness, frustration, despondence and if you refuse to acknowledge the swell of symptoms, an indifference swallows you like a falsely soothing wave of post-op morphine.
At least that’s what happens to me if I ignore the telltale signs it’s time to move on to the next adventure, chapter, era of my life. Thankfully push rarely comes to shove, and I peer through the blinds of my wonderful, comfortable day to day before the despondency kicks in. And I remember, “the reason I’m so comfortable in the first place is because I took a leap to create a major change in my life, against all reason and advice of friends and family. It’s time to move on to the next thing.” And I jump.